Hi. I Need some help.
Last year, I fell hoplessly in love (I know it sounds corny
but is true) with a work coleague. She seemed to have the
same feeling towards me and after several goings out, I
left my family home (and my family as well). Well, to cut
things short, things did not pan well between me and my friend.
Over a period of 6 months after that, I met several women
with whom I had casual but intimate relationships. After
a period of introspection, I accepted in my heart that what
I had with my work colleague and with the women that followed
was the release of a pent-up frustration of 10 years of marriage
where neither me or my wife paid a lot o attention to each
other.
I got back to with my wife, promising each other that we would
be more carefull with the relationship (personally I promised
her that I would do with her what I have beeen doing with the
other women: to have fun).
But the fact is that I cannot manage to re-ignite the love
between us. Yes, of course things are “OK”.
Things are “comfortable”. But I am not in love.
We are both 40, so it is plenty of time to engage in a meaningfull
relationship, and my problem is thou I cannot manage to
engage her, I also do not manage to disengage. I am distracted.
Anyone can offer any help anyway?