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It seems that at least 2 times a week I will read a post by a
new member asking for advice, help, tips, and the why they
do not receive a response or how to receive responses from
other members they are interested in. Mostly the male members
ask these questions and the majority of this is directed
to them; however some of you ladies or couples can find a
little advice in it as well, and many of you can add your own
experience and advice also.

Over the 5 years of being a member of Adult FriendFinder, I am going to try
once again to share what I have learned concerning this
to try and help the ones that have asked.

One thing that is very important is how you describe yourself
and what you are looking for with another personpersons.
Describe yourself honestly about your personality, your
likes, dislikes, hobbies, music you enjoy, your career
and your aspirations, and your sexual interest depending
upon what you are looking for. Not all of the above is a must
to have, although it does let another person have a little
insight to the type of person you are, and that is one of the
biggest keys to having success in Adult FriendFinder is how you describe
and portray yourself in the profile. Having a picture also
is very helpful to have, but not necessarily a nude one either
as your main photo. Some of us male or female would rather
see your faces, not whats between your legs. Secondly
describe what type of person you are looking for and exactly
what is it you are wanting in that individual. I think most
of us can say we have one thing in common to that question
and that is a sexual partner lol. But what type of partner
are you looking for, what kind of interest should shehe
have, what kind of body, what type of personality, does
race make a difference to you? You should be more explicit
as to your wants and needs in that individual you are seeking
for whatever reason you may have.

Third and this is one I see so many mentions about. Do not
depend on or expect that when you send an email to another
member that you will get a response back, especially if
you went looking through the search page. Many of these
members that are listed are inactive, already found someone,
or receive so many emails that they do not have time to read
and reply back to yours. If this is how you are looking you
will be very lucky if you get one response back out of a hundred
you send; especially if you are a male member, since the
women receive far more emails then the men do.

Forth and this is the best way that I can tell anyone male
or female that wants to find what they are looking for. Adult FriendFinder
has several chat rooms and this is truly the best way to find
exactly what you are looking for. Many of the members would
rather chat with another to get to know them and find out
the type of person they are before any type of contact is
made. When I say any type of contact made, I mean by email,
chatting privately, talking on the phone and meeting in
person. One of the biggest things to remember is not to be
discouraged by going in the chat rooms for the first few
times. You have to realize that many of the members in the
room are regulars and friends with others in the room and
you are considered a Newbie to us regulars, at least that
is how we refer to a new member in the Southern Room until
you have shown the person you are and we have gotten to know
you, and visaversa.

There are many things that can make or break you in the chat
room. The biggest one that can break you, and a lot new male
members do this, and that is immediately try and private
message a female member without chatting openly in the
room with them. This is considered to be rude to many and
thus you just might find yourself embarrassed by a comment
made by one of those ladies about you. Dont be fooled in
thinking that the other members do not read what one of these
ladies will post if you do this, nor think you can just go
on to the next either, and that is because you have just been
judged. Another thing that many do also is send a Network
of Friends invitation to a member they never even chatted
with. Take notice of a keyword in there, Friends is a keyword.
Consequently if you do this, you will most likely receive
the same treatment or remark made as to trying to chat privately
without chatting openly.

This is some of the key things that can make it for you in the
chat rooms. One is being you. If you have a sense of humor,
let it show. If you are a gentleman, show it by greeting the
lady that comes in the room with a good morning, good afternoon
or good evening, and ask her how she is doing. You just might
be surprised how those two little questions can make a world
of difference. Another thing to keep in mind is not to be
discouraged or feel like you are being ignored or brushed
off if a lady begins to all of sudden start chatting with
another male member that greets her. A lot of us that are
in the rooms are just friends, and we may flirt, tease, joke
or ask how things are in their personal lives. This does
not mean we have a romantic or sexual interest in one another.
So dont take it as she is not interested in you. Another
thing to try to do is, remember that ladys handle the next
time you come in the room and what the two of you chatted about
previously. Being in the chat room is almost the same as
being in public and meeting someone for the first time and
striking up a conversation and then seeing that person
the next day. Another thing that might be of help also is
do not be afraid to chat with someone of the same sex as you,
especially if that person is a regular and a popular member.
The reason I say this is that the ones you associate yourself
with is noticed by others, and also you are showing that
you do not have an insecurity of yourself as well. The more
you come in the chat room, the more you will see and understand
what is really going on in there, and gain experience. It
does take time to find what you are looking for, but I can
almost promise you that you can find whatever you are seeking
within the chat rooms.

There is so much more advice I can share or give when it comes
to the chat rooms, but my fingers are getting tired and I
can go on and on about it and never be able to explain it all
lol.

But before I do end this, I do want to make a note to all of you
that read this. Dont use my profile as an example. My profile
has been rewritten over the years and I do not need to have
it read by others since I have made somewhat of a reputation
for myself within the chat room over the period of time I
have been a member of Adult FriendFinder, and I have made many friends that
do know me outside of Adult FriendFinder, and they know the person I truly
am.

I hope this small amount of advice can help make the difference
for some of you that askasked for it.

Good luck in your search and quest for what you are looking
for,
Your1

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